I have a problem with one of the romances?

Romancing problems can occur for many reasons. You might have said something wrong, you're not gender or race compatible, you may even be in the wrong area!

The romance with Jaheira still has alot of bugs in it (even after the patch). That's why I advise you to download the Baldurdash Bugfixes or at the very least the specific file named: Updated Improved Jaheira Romance/Harper Plot.

Romances depend on real time, not in-game time. There's a specific timer for Aerie, Anomen, Jaheira and Viconia. This timer varies from half an hour (thanks to the fix from Baldurdash) up to an hour. Every hour a new LoveTalk should start. This LoveTalk is accompanied by a certain music. However, when you're in a dungeon, LTs will not happen. They will pop up once you leave the dungeon (if the timer has passed).
Sometimes a romance will not progress, because you have not met a certain requirement. This could be sleeping, being outdoors, being in another area or waiting for a certain quest to be round up (like the Dermin quests). Try the above suggestions, if you're stuck.

You can find some CLUAConsole codes that can help you solve the problem(s) below. Note that you can also change the NPCs name in these codes to reflect the NPC you're romancing:

Still have a bug? Post at the forums. We're there to help and have probably seen 'em all.